Love.

What is this thing called love? It is a plethora of emotions strongly associated with attraction. This means, love can take on many different forms. The love for your mother, the love for art, the love for your spouse, these are all different kinds of love.

People are often fearful and avoid the word love altogether. I can understand, this word can imply very drastic things. This is why I think its important to understand and define what type of love we are referring to.

I see attraction from a sonic point of view. WTF does that mean? It means that i feel every individual emits a very specific frequency or group of frequencies. These frequencies will either resonate with other frequencies or it will create dissonance. I know we have all experienced this at one point or another.

Anytime someone behaves negatively toward someone else for no justified reason, this is the case. Many times if you can get this person to calm down and step back from the situation, they will then realize how silly they have been acting.

The catch to this theory, is that everyone can change their frequency. The change of frequency represents growth.

A long time ago I believed that as we grew, our core essence of existence stayed the same. This is true for a lot of unfortunate stagnant souls. As for the rest of us, we change as we live our lives. As our frequency changes, so does the frequency of the others around us. This is what makes relationships so difficult.

The best way to succeed in a relationship is to be open, understanding that as we change, others will change. If we can see that we want to change and let ourselves change for the better, then and only then can two people help each other grow. It takes a whole different kind of understanding to make this happen. A complete support for the body, mind, and soul of another being. This openness is the key to success.